I guess I need to set this straight for all the haters out here.
The photos I now hate to say are real and came from my wedding and the person that stole them from my personal site "WAS" a family member until I saw what she did and I found out she did it. I have not spoken to her since, and I am not sure I ever will. I don't know if I can forgive such a rotten hateful thing.
The wedding dress was made by a friend. I wanted everything to be done that way.
The wedding did not take place at a church (or a garage) It was at a fire hall and the only shade was by the garage doors at the fire hall. I regret the back drop, but you take what you can get in 90 degree weather and no trees near by, expect for a thick patch of woods.
I am madly in love with my husband and he is madly in love with me. We are not like most people and judge on looks. We look at a person for who they are and since we have been dealing with this .... I have not been dealing with very nice people.
I have been called terrible names, and so has my husband and by people we do not know.
It is sad to me how people can be so mean to others. I am fat and my husband is a toothpick ..... So What!! We see each other from what is inside our hearts, not by what the world thinks we should see. This world is a pretty messed up place, I am not judging anything by it.
I took the comment to heart at first and it sent me into a sever depression that took a month to break and a lot of tears to deal with. I first saw the email portion of this at my place of employment ... as did my mother and the rest of my family and friends in the photos.
The wedding took place in 2005, and people cannot seem to drop it. I don't get what could be so funny for 3 years. I know a few of the photos are funny ... Aren't weddings suppose to have funny pictures? I was dared by my so-called best friend at the time to show my swollen leg. (Which by the way is not gout ... It is what I have to remind me of a very bad time in my life and I will always have to live with it.)
I am what my father gave me and not taking good care of myself has made me, and I have to live with that ... no one else does, and I do live with it.
